‘What if it’s a scam?’ How to have a successful date with a pro, by doing your homework
Just as you wouldn’t buy a car without taking it for a test drive, you shouldn’t commit to getting naked with someone until you’ve done your due diligence.
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A First-time Client’s Guide to Escort Booking Etiquette
Here’s a word of warning for you: many people see escorts, but few get it right on the first go.
Have you considered an open relationship? A guide to consensual non-monogamy for escort clients.
Infidelity is a touchy subject for escort clients. As any sex worker knows, cheating is incredibly common. And it’s not a black-and-white issue.
Incalls versus outcalls: choosing a location for your first escort meeting
It’s one of the first questions most escorts ask a prospective client. Along with, ‘How long do you want to stay for?’ and ‘When would you like to meet?’ It’s the basic information we need to know to ensure you’re serious about meeting an escort.
The do's and dont's of meeting an escort for the first time
Escort etiquette can seem complicated if you're new to it. By knowing a few basic rules, you can take the guesswork out of your escort meeting.
Bragging vs Advocacy: Understand the Difference!
If you see sex workers and they’ve made your life better, you probably feel strongly about looking after us. Perhaps you’ve spoken with enough providers to have an understanding of why sex worker rights are so important, and you’re keen to talk about it.
Ask Andre: My Kink Friends Are Shaming me for Seeing Sex Workers
Here’s what you’re doing when you hire a professional: getting as close to a sure thing as humanly possible. People don’t patronize sex workers for the mystery or thrill of the chase – if you want that, then go pick up someone who’s flirting for free.
How to Explore Your Queerness With a Sex Worker
There are as many different kinds of sex workers as there are kinds of people, so when seeking out a provider to help you explore your queerness it’s good to ask yourself questions.
Public Date Etiquette: How to Behave With Escorts and Other Providers
There are many advantages to social dates. But when you take your favourite worker out in public, there are some things you must know. Here’s the public date etiquette you need to follow to ensure everyone has a great time.
Camming Etiquette 101: How To Be The Perfect Fan
No matter your motivation for indulging in some virtual playtime, it’s good to keep a positive relationship with your favourite streamers and creators - we really notice!
Why Haggling is a Really Bad Idea When You Book a Sex Worker
Haggle at a garage sale. Haggle at a swap meet. Haggle with your mother, your neighbor, your priest. But never, ever haggle with an independent sex worker with published rates.
