If you have a particular kink or fetish that you want to explore with a provider, it can be difficult to know how to bring it up. It’s ideal that you would search for a provider who specializes in that kink or, at the very least, lists themselves as kink and fetish friendly
There was a time when BDSM was a niche term, but it’s now something even the most vanilla adults will know about! However, it’s mostly the sexual, sensational aspects of kink-speak that get the most attention. Kink’s vocabulary around consent, respect, and safety hasn’t become so mainstream.
Dental dams are an oft-maligned tool that can be incredibly useful in a whole load of sticky situations, if you know how to use them correctly! Although dental dams aren’t often discussed in sex-ed classes, or used by civilians, they’re very useful for anyone who cares about safer sex.
I want to share some of my thoughts on what the landscape of attraction to trans women looks like in a largely transphobic society. I hope by sharing some patterns I’ve noticed in my personal life and with clients, I can contribute a small nudge in the right direction.
Perhaps you’ve seen providers throw around the term timewaster. What exactly does it mean, and how can you avoid being branded as a timewaster? How can you respect providers’ time, and be a better client as a result?
Remember to be kind and considerate with the women you reach out to, especially us trans ones. Things are tough, and it goes a long way in building a good relationship with your chosen provider, by simply remembering who they are and how they like to be treated.
