‘What if it’s a scam?’ How to have a successful date with a pro, by doing your homework
Just as you wouldn’t buy a car without taking it for a test drive, you shouldn’t commit to getting naked with someone until you’ve done your due diligence.
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A First-time Client’s Guide to Escort Booking Etiquette
Here’s a word of warning for you: many people see escorts, but few get it right on the first go.
Have you considered an open relationship? A guide to consensual non-monogamy for escort clients.
Infidelity is a touchy subject for escort clients. As any sex worker knows, cheating is incredibly common. And it’s not a black-and-white issue.
Incalls versus outcalls: choosing a location for your first escort meeting
It’s one of the first questions most escorts ask a prospective client. Along with, ‘How long do you want to stay for?’ and ‘When would you like to meet?’ It’s the basic information we need to know to ensure you’re serious about meeting an escort.
The do's and dont's of meeting an escort for the first time
Escort etiquette can seem complicated if you're new to it. By knowing a few basic rules, you can take the guesswork out of your escort meeting.
Dental Dams - What They’re for and How to Use One
Dental dams are an oft-maligned tool that can be incredibly useful in a whole load of sticky situations, if you know how to use them correctly! Although dental dams aren’t often discussed in sex-ed classes, or used by civilians, they’re very useful for anyone who cares about safer sex.
A Tryst About Town With Sunny Bonheur - London
London holds a special allure as a city brimming with boundless opportunities. While iconic landmarks like Big Ben and Buckingham Palace capture global attention, my London is a tapestry woven with myriad threads of culture, diversity, and hidden gems.
How To Be A Good Sub: A Client’s Guide
I’m lucky that all my clients are wonderfully kind, but for when subs are less well versed in relating to Doms respectfully, I’ve written up a roadmap to that kindness.
Trans Attraction is Totally Normal, But Not Normalized
I want to share some of my thoughts on what the landscape of attraction to trans women looks like in a largely transphobic society. I hope by sharing some patterns I’ve noticed in my personal life and with clients, I can contribute a small nudge in the right direction.
What’s So Attractive About Communication?
In the world of escorts and client relationships – an escort’s attraction to the client is all about his initial message, his communication.
What is Sex, Anyway? Why it’s More Than Just PIV
When many of us think about sex, we make a lot of assumptions about what it should look like for both ourselves and others. These assumptions are based on all kinds of sources: sex scenes in movies, porn on the Internet...
