‘What if it’s a scam?’ How to have a successful date with a pro, by doing your homework
Just as you wouldn’t buy a car without taking it for a test drive, you shouldn’t commit to getting naked with someone until you’ve done your due diligence.
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A First-time Client’s Guide to Escort Booking Etiquette
Here’s a word of warning for you: many people see escorts, but few get it right on the first go.
Have you considered an open relationship? A guide to consensual non-monogamy for escort clients.
Infidelity is a touchy subject for escort clients. As any sex worker knows, cheating is incredibly common. And it’s not a black-and-white issue.
Incalls versus outcalls: choosing a location for your first escort meeting
It’s one of the first questions most escorts ask a prospective client. Along with, ‘How long do you want to stay for?’ and ‘When would you like to meet?’ It’s the basic information we need to know to ensure you’re serious about meeting an escort.
The do's and dont's of meeting an escort for the first time
Escort etiquette can seem complicated if you're new to it. By knowing a few basic rules, you can take the guesswork out of your escort meeting.
The Importance of Pleasure for Clients
Whether it’s vanilla or kink, time with an escort is truly pleasurable precisely because it’s not part of a monotonous routine.
The Pressure to Perform
Clients feel anxious about making a good impression; about making the escort feel comfortable; in all, about achieving mutual pleasure.
Interview: Lucy de L’amour Shares Fun Date Ideas That Don’t Involve Sex
I recently spoke with Lucy de L’amour - a Melbourne-based escort and social date enthusiast - to hear about some of her more interesting and, perhaps, unusual social outings with clients.
Ask Andre: Is it Okay to Ask a Sex Worker if They Have STIs?
One often overlooked part of a provider-client negotiation is sexual safety, and for good reason. We’re socialized to believe that we should possess some kind of intimate telepathy when it comes to others’ bodies, and that the alternative runs the risk of “killing the mood”.
Edging & The Benefits of Prolonging Release
Edging isn’t about denying yourself pleasure, on the contrary - you’re opening yourself up to different, even greater pleasures.
A Client’s Introduction to Asking for Kink
Hopefully, you're reading this because you are looking for professionals to fulfil your fantasies and you want to be respectful when contacting providers.
