‘What if it’s a scam?’ How to have a successful date with a pro, by doing your homework
Just as you wouldn’t buy a car without taking it for a test drive, you shouldn’t commit to getting naked with someone until you’ve done your due diligence.
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A First-time Client’s Guide to Escort Booking Etiquette
Here’s a word of warning for you: many people see escorts, but few get it right on the first go.
Have you considered an open relationship? A guide to consensual non-monogamy for escort clients.
Infidelity is a touchy subject for escort clients. As any sex worker knows, cheating is incredibly common. And it’s not a black-and-white issue.
Incalls versus outcalls: choosing a location for your first escort meeting
It’s one of the first questions most escorts ask a prospective client. Along with, ‘How long do you want to stay for?’ and ‘When would you like to meet?’ It’s the basic information we need to know to ensure you’re serious about meeting an escort.
The do's and dont's of meeting an escort for the first time
Escort etiquette can seem complicated if you're new to it. By knowing a few basic rules, you can take the guesswork out of your escort meeting.
Trans Attraction is Totally Normal, But Not Normalized
I want to share some of my thoughts on what the landscape of attraction to trans women looks like in a largely transphobic society. I hope by sharing some patterns I’ve noticed in my personal life and with clients, I can contribute a small nudge in the right direction.
What’s So Attractive About Communication?
In the world of escorts and client relationships – an escort’s attraction to the client is all about his initial message, his communication.
What is Sex, Anyway? Why it’s More Than Just PIV
When many of us think about sex, we make a lot of assumptions about what it should look like for both ourselves and others. These assumptions are based on all kinds of sources: sex scenes in movies, porn on the Internet...
A Tryst About Town With Lucy De L'amour - Melbourne
Melbourne has a wonderful blend of offering everything that a large city can, such as amazing food, cultural experiences, and diverse opportunities for entertainment and enrichment, while also hiding so many gorgeous little secrets.
No Time to Waste: Efficient Communication With Providers
Perhaps you’ve seen providers throw around the term timewaster. What exactly does it mean, and how can you avoid being branded as a timewaster? How can you respect providers’ time, and be a better client as a result?
A General Guide to Seeing a Trans Woman Provider
Remember to be kind and considerate with the women you reach out to, especially us trans ones. Things are tough, and it goes a long way in building a good relationship with your chosen provider, by simply remembering who they are and how they like to be treated.
