There was a time when BDSM was a niche term, but it’s now something even the most vanilla adults will know about! However, it’s mostly the sexual, sensational aspects of kink-speak that get the most attention. Kink’s vocabulary around consent, respect, and safety hasn’t become so mainstream.
I want to share some of my thoughts on what the landscape of attraction to trans women looks like in a largely transphobic society. I hope by sharing some patterns I’ve noticed in my personal life and with clients, I can contribute a small nudge in the right direction.
Perhaps you’ve seen providers throw around the term timewaster. What exactly does it mean, and how can you avoid being branded as a timewaster? How can you respect providers’ time, and be a better client as a result?
Whether it’s vanilla or kink, time with an escort is truly pleasurable precisely because it’s not part of a monotonous routine.
Clients feel anxious about making a good impression; about making the escort feel comfortable; in all, about achieving mutual pleasure.
I recently spoke with Lucy de L’amour - a Melbourne-based escort and social date enthusiast - to hear about some of her more interesting and, perhaps, unusual social outings with clients.
