I want to share some of my thoughts on what the landscape of attraction to trans women looks like in a largely transphobic society. I hope by sharing some patterns I’ve noticed in my personal life and with clients, I can contribute a small nudge in the right direction.
Perhaps you’ve seen providers throw around the term timewaster. What exactly does it mean, and how can you avoid being branded as a timewaster? How can you respect providers’ time, and be a better client as a result?
Remember to be kind and considerate with the women you reach out to, especially us trans ones. Things are tough, and it goes a long way in building a good relationship with your chosen provider, by simply remembering who they are and how they like to be treated.
Whether it’s vanilla or kink, time with an escort is truly pleasurable precisely because it’s not part of a monotonous routine.
Edging isn’t about denying yourself pleasure, on the contrary - you’re opening yourself up to different, even greater pleasures.
Flaky behavior, no-call no-shows, and last minute cancellations have become so common that providers seek to combat them while protecting themselves, by requiring a deposit to confirm the appointment.
