Hurray for you for hiring a professional to hold the non-judgemental container for you to explore your sexual self. It is a beautiful journey of self discovery with plenty of rabbit holes to go down. As you have spent the time to research the correct individual to connect with, the finances to make this fantasy come true along with all the efforts and energy to prepare for such a momentous event - do not ruin it by focusing on your release for pleasure. Savor the moment, be present and enjoy the ride. Your professional knows what they are doing. Let them guide you the way they feel is best for the both of you.

Ejaculation Tunnel Vision

Don’t get blindsided by focusing on the destination that you miss all the fun detours along the way. When you constantly think about what is going to happen in the future, you are not present in the moment. It is difficult to connect with someone when they are not present during an experience. The connection is what will bring you to an elevated state of being. Also, why drive in a tunnel when you can see and feel the exhilarating ride of driving on the edge?


This unique experience isn’t a sprint, it's a marathon. And if you want to go the distance, you've got to train for it. Holding off on the grand finale helps you build up that sexual stamina. This is an experience you’ll want to last for. Trust me, the longer they can tease and toy with you the more fun it’ll be for everyone!

Control that Mind

You’ve fallen prey to their tempting and seductive powers. They control you and it’s clear. Every word, every touch and you’re instantly throbbing as if nodding your head yes. Master your own physicality and the mentality to match it. You choose to be weak for them, but it takes strength to show this vulnerability. This kind of self-discipline will take you far, it transfers to outside of the dungeon/bedroom. You’ll be able to do anything you put your mind to and that right there is sexy.

Pinnacle of Pleasure

Ah, the sweet agony of delayed gratification – there's nothing quite like it. When you hold back, you're not just extending the pleasure, you're ramping it up to a whole new level. The longer you hold out, the more explosive the climax. Trust me, it's a crescendo that'll leave you breathless and begging for an encore. She is a seductress, but that doesn’t mean you can’t try to resist her powers.

Sensational Rewiring

Think of it as a rewire job of your pleasure circuitry. When you learn to hold back, you're rewiring your body's responses. You're turning your intimate encounters into a rollercoaster ride of sensations, with twists, turns, and loops that culminate in an earth-shattering crescendo. It's a sensory symphony, with her conducting. Let them strap you in with some bondage and enjoy the ride.

Unleash the Element of Surprise

You may be leashed but you can still unleash an element of surprise. Holding back introduces that element of surprise that'll keep her on her toes. And let me tell you, that's the kind of challenge that is truly titillating. Variety is the spice of life. Your legs may be spread open, but you can also open the door to new worlds. New positions, new rhythms, new sensations – it's like unwrapping a present every time you get intimate.

A Deeper Connection

Ejaculation isn't just a physical release; it's an emotional one too. When you take the time to truly please her and her desires, you're building a bridge of trust and intimacy. It's about more than just getting off; it's about connecting on a deeper level. Don't rush the journey – savor every moment being in her presence.

Confidence: The Ultimate Aphrodisiac

Confidence is sexy, dear pet, and when you've got the power to control your own pleasure, it's like wearing a cloak of confidence even though you’re naked and exposed. You crawl in knowing that you can withstand whatever she has in store for you, and let me tell you, that's a major turn-on.

The Anxiety Antidote

Performance anxiety, the fear of climaxing too soon can be a real mood killer. But when you've mastered the art of holding back, that anxiety fades away. You're free to lose yourself in the moment, knowing you've got the skills to deliver whatever they want.

Multiple Orgasms?!

She can have multiple orgasms and so can you. By mastering ejaculation control, you're opening the door to a world of pleasure. It's like a never-ending rollercoaster of ecstasy, with peaks that just keep coming. You can definitely have a full body trembling orgasm without ejaculating. Now shoot for the moon, and go for multiples!

It isn’t about denying yourself pleasure, on the contrary - you’re opening yourself up to different, even greater pleasures. Step into the next level of sexual experiences, explore the depths of connection and make it more meaningful than just a release. Look at it as a form of devotion and dedication to her pleasures. It’s time to change the ending to this usual story, re-write it into something that has a cliffhanger where you’re left aching to binge watch the next episode. It’s your season, make it a smashing hit with your performance.

Are you a sex worker or client with tips or experiences to share? We'd love to hear from you!

The Good Client Guide destigmatizes sex work while providing guidance on how to be a better client and ally. Better experiences for workers mean better experiences for clients! To make this happen, we’re welcoming submissions from all your favourite providers.

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